Ladies “May you learn that pain and suffering are not and should not be a rite of passage to your femininity. You are not a rehabilitation centre of poorly raised men, as a wise woman once said,bad communicators who can’t give you the basics like loyalty, honor and the respect you deserve.’
I have had my share of failed relationships, flings annndddd wait for it “assumptionships”.
Yes. You read right: An assumed relationship. Growing up, I have found myself dating or seeing guys who enjoy the benefits that come with ‘being seen’ but aren’t really committed to me or ready for relationships.
This guy talks about exclusivity, behaves like a boyfriend, shares intimate moments with you until he suddenly wakes up as though from a dream and decides-
“Wait! This is not what I want, or I have seen ‘better’ or….” the list is endless.
Sadly I have learned that this only means that the time they were ‘dating’ you, they had someone else they ‘would rather commit to’.
I say this in quotes because they never really commit to the other party either but that is a story for another day.
See, we have a breed of people who feed off…
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